Forget

Sometimes, there are things that we do not wish it would ever happen in our life...
Sometimes, we do not wish to come across something BUT we still did...

What should we do when these happens?
We Choose to FORGET the unpleasant things...

BUT

Why the things we choose to forget will haunt us till the end...?

and

Why the things we chose to remember will never stay in our memory...?

When we chose to forget something, actually we are the one who made it haunt ourselves... because, we always tell ourselves "I want to forget this, FORGET FORGET FORGET... (This act will only remind us of the unpleasant stuff, it will forever remain in our heart and mind)"

I believe, you know that...

When you're happy, time passes real fast?
When you're sad, time passes real slow?
Happy or sad you still need to go through the day... SO... why not be happy?
Laugh or cry you too will still have to face the day... So... Which do you choose?

It is your choice and yours alone. No one have the right to control what you think and the choices you make.

How to keep yourself from being hurt from others?
-Keep to yourself forever?
-Never get close to anyone?
-Run away from society?
-Drown yourself in sorrow thinking "NO ONE WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME''?


Well... through my experience...

One can only hurt us IF we let them do so... and
No one can hurt us IF we do not let them...

It is not easy to practice such thing (still doing my best to do so)...
Just be yourself, confidence and sometimes ignorant is a MUST in life. I believe we all face something that are difficult to be handle in life. But... Look at the bright side, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE... one may not understand your feeling but a true friend will do their best to understand you... just give them a chance to understand you... open up a little, do not get yourself stranded in your own unpleasant thinking and feelings...

So...

How to forget??? Hmmm... a tough question...

Well to forget something is easy.... JUST DON'T THINK BOUT IT TOO MUCH...
hahaha... it is easier said than done (for everything is the same)

When you felt it (the unpleasant thing/feeling) sinking into your heart and mind... give this a TRY...
-Do something you like,
-Think of the things that are pleasant to you
-do not sink yourself in work it'll get worse
-force yourself to do something
-try not to be too stubborn
-Relax and enjoy your surrounding

If it still bothers you... you did not work hard enough... because you yourself is letting it hurt you and "never" wanted to let it go...

If you still cannot get rid of it, seek for someone to hear you out if all the methods that you think you've used still does not work... it does not mean you're unable to be cured or help...
For these people... i'm sorry to say this...
IF YOU DO NOT HELP YOURSELF NO ONE CAN HELP YOU EVEN GOD...

We have to be independent,
we have to help ourselves,
it feels good to rely on people but it is also dangerous...

We always say that i've done my best to forget but i can never get over it...

Remember these...

Rome is not build in a day...
it takes time...
a wound takes time to heal and scars will be left by the wound...
with todays technology... we can get rid of any scar that we have on our body with plastic surgery...
but
long time ago since the existence of 'men' we ourselves can get rid of the scar left by our wound in our heart... that is forget...
Not all and maybe not even one can totally be ignorant till they can 'forget everthing they had came upon... even people with amnesia at times still remember the things that had ever happened...

So to forget something is not as easy as it sound... but...
if you try and fail you are not a failure
however...
if you never even tried and give up you are a total failure...

So stand up and do your best... at least... give it a shot so that there'll be no regrets...

Let work hard together to have a better "tommorow"('',) ... All the best to all and just remember that...
To forget something is easy.... ''JUST DON'T THINK BOUT IT TOO MUCH...''
hahaha... it is easier said than done (for everything is the same)