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Playing with wood scraps on the floor.
He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the boy responded,
'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.
' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless.
Then tears started to stream down their cheeks.
Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table.
For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason,
neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.

On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens,

(What goes around COMES around) Think twice how you want lead your life... (",) Just remember we only have one precious chance but lots chose to REGRET rather than APPRECIATES...

how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles four things:
a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.

I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'

I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands.
You need to be able to throw something back
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you
But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you

I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.

I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.

I've learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.

People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.

Meaningful Email

Do appreciates and treasure what you have now rather than to regret it in future.

This may be long but spending time reading it (again) will help ones understand life better.

The Wooden Bowl

I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden Bowl
tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year - old grandson.
The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.
The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and
failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor.
When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.
'We must do something about father,' said the son.
'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.'

So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner.
There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner.
Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.

When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son...

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Metaphors (The world and WE)

Dear readers,

Have you ever thought of politics are also happening in our body?

Just imagine that our white blood cells and red blood cells as the world populations.  Then our body parts such as our legs, hands, head and etc as the different countries that we have.  Our legs are divided into thigh, shin and foot, these are also like a country that is divided into different states.

So… If we are having politics in this world of ours, imagining it is also happening in our body, blood cells migrate from one part of our body to another part, just like us migrating or traveling from one part of the country to another.  Our body gets blockages from unwanted chemicals that are accumulated right? Which stops the cells to travel smoothly? Just like when we are traveling we faces immigrations policies and problems.  Just to say about cells, we have different groups of cells in our body, so what to say about us human being in this world?  We are somehow divided into different types of groups due to our own beliefs and principles’.

In your opinion, which part of the body is the most important?  Well to me, I think every part is important, without any one of the parts we will not be complete (as in physically), just like if our earth lost one part of the country the world will not be complete. So why? The question is why certain parts of the countries in the world would have war to destroy another country.  If our body parts is having war with the other parts how will you feel, because you are the world and your body is the countries and states.

So... Love the world just like you love your body... (",)

Cheers,

Sam

I know a girl...

I know a girl who; 

Give her love unconditionally to her beloved family.

Never expect anything in return,

neither money nor LOVE...

We know that everyone wanted to be love but...

this girl,

had given so much to her family without fail...

never expect anything in return...

Yes, the world is not like the world of movie... we thought that when unconditional love is given...

unconditional love will be showered upon us...

the truth is... it does not work that way....

Though she know that the world is cruel but she never stop loving, helping and caring for the people besides her...

Her love ones always take her for granted,

never think of how hard the life that she had went through...

"Wanted to know more??? well lets wait for the next post"

i receive comment of not to blog too long so i'll cut short here... (",)

TO BE CONTINUE...

E-mail

My mom sent me this in an email, interestingly this is so true... (",)

Cheers

(",)

More Cases Comics'

Family

Grandparents and some cuz~~

Cheers,

(",)

Funny~~~

An introduction of the cases...

Continue~~~
Fun???  Hehehe... do wait for the next one, when there're new activities, it will be posted...

Cheers,

(",)

Metaphors

Our goal in life is always in front of us, the journey that we have to travel is just in front, we can look as far as we can, BUT, no matter how straight and smooth the journey seems, we can never manage to see more than what we can see here...

There are obstacles that will slow down our pace in life, you can either 'overtake' the obstacles or just follow behind it getting frustrated...

A journey can never be rushed, we should not rush in making decisions,  obstacles and more obstacles will always flow to us, it is up to us how we are going to handle it.

Cheers,

(",)

Difficult things' in life

What is the most difficult thing to attend to in life?

Family?

Friends?

Relatives?

Lovers?

Work?

Educations?

Wow so much… But I do believe there are much more things to be attended to in our daily life.

Nothing is hard to be attending to, the hardest thing to be attending to in our lives is to make choices, choosing between friends and family, choosing between friendship and money… and many more.  In the end, everything comes down to CHOICES and choices alone. 

What do you normally do;

When come to making choices? 

What about when being FORCED to make a choice?

When all choices look so tempting?

 

What will you consider first hand? 

Will you do what you’ve considered?

Will you stick to your thinking and principle?

 

What would you say??? (“,)

Things don't always come out the way we wanted it to be.

Things can't always follow our will and thinking.

Love -- Questions

What is love?

Why is there love?

When can we love?

Who can we love?

Where can we find love?

How to understand love?

(Answers will soon come to you when you less expected it)

Thinking

Everyday, 

Thinking of your goal,

Thinking of how to achieve it,

Thinking of when can it be achieve,

Thinking of which route to take is the less dangerous?

Thinking too much of one thing,

Looking too far into the future,

Predicting and assuming ones circumstances/effects,

May cause 'one', fear to continue their journey,

May create a sense of negativity,

May just give up without trying at all.

Should we make an effort to think about our future?

Should we think more OR should we think less?

What do you think?

Friend

Did you ever had a friend who you trusted whole heartedly and one day, he/she had done something harmful to you?

I believe most of us do come accross to this kind of things...

I have a friend who i really take and treat as a friend, i'll do anything to help whenever i can, i'll give whatever i could, i'll spend my time whenever i can, i'll be there no matter wherever i am...

I may not be a good friend but i will always do my best to be a friend a person could have...

However, by treating someone whole heartedly, you may not realize the things the person had done behind your back, because you chose to believe and trust her/him no matter what others comments are about.

I not only got betrayed once by my friends, it has been a few times. So why didn't i learn the lessons? Well i chose to believe, in a friendship, Trust is important, just like in any other relationship that we're seeking. Actually, we're all seeking for trust in any relationship, if not, we can actually survive alone without any problem.

Why are there Human and God relationship?
Why are there friendships, lovers, relatives?
BECAUSE OF TRUST, THESE RELATIONSHIPS EXISTED...

Thats why i chose to trust and believe rather than doubt (hahaha), this is the reason why sometimes i got betrayed by friends and never knowing bout it...

Well i believe everyone out there have at least one person whom they called FRIEND... Good luck in the present and future... Things that happened in the past may not happened again if...(review to the past entry of 'FORGET'). Do not stay in the past too long, it'll 'chew' of ones brain...

Why are we given another day to breath?
WE ARE GIVEN ANOTHER CHANCE TO DO THE THINGS THAT WE SHOULD HAVE DONE BEFORE, TO ACHIVE THE THINGS WE HAD ONY SAID BUT NEVER DID... TO TRUST AND LOVE THE ONES BESIDES YOU MORE AND MORE BEFORE OUR TIME COMES...

A new day is a new hope,
a new inspiration,
a new beginning,
and lots more...


Regards to all
Cheers

Forget

Sometimes, there are things that we do not wish it would ever happen in our life...
Sometimes, we do not wish to come across something BUT we still did...

What should we do when these happens?
We Choose to FORGET the unpleasant things...

BUT

Why the things we choose to forget will haunt us till the end...?

and

Why the things we chose to remember will never stay in our memory...?

When we chose to forget something, actually we are the one who made it haunt ourselves... because, we always tell ourselves "I want to forget this, FORGET FORGET FORGET... (This act will only remind us of the unpleasant stuff, it will forever remain in our heart and mind)"

I believe, you know that...

When you're happy, time passes real fast?
When you're sad, time passes real slow?
Happy or sad you still need to go through the day... SO... why not be happy?
Laugh or cry you too will still have to face the day... So... Which do you choose?

It is your choice and yours alone. No one have the right to control what you think and the choices you make.

How to keep yourself from being hurt from others?
-Keep to yourself forever?
-Never get close to anyone?
-Run away from society?
-Drown yourself in sorrow thinking "NO ONE WILL EVER UNDERSTAND ME''?


Well... through my experience...

One can only hurt us IF we let them do so... and
No one can hurt us IF we do not let them...

It is not easy to practice such thing (still doing my best to do so)...
Just be yourself, confidence and sometimes ignorant is a MUST in life. I believe we all face something that are difficult to be handle in life. But... Look at the bright side, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE... one may not understand your feeling but a true friend will do their best to understand you... just give them a chance to understand you... open up a little, do not get yourself stranded in your own unpleasant thinking and feelings...

So...

How to forget??? Hmmm... a tough question...

Well to forget something is easy.... JUST DON'T THINK BOUT IT TOO MUCH...
hahaha... it is easier said than done (for everything is the same)

When you felt it (the unpleasant thing/feeling) sinking into your heart and mind... give this a TRY...
-Do something you like,
-Think of the things that are pleasant to you
-do not sink yourself in work it'll get worse
-force yourself to do something
-try not to be too stubborn
-Relax and enjoy your surrounding

If it still bothers you... you did not work hard enough... because you yourself is letting it hurt you and "never" wanted to let it go...

If you still cannot get rid of it, seek for someone to hear you out if all the methods that you think you've used still does not work... it does not mean you're unable to be cured or help...
For these people... i'm sorry to say this...
IF YOU DO NOT HELP YOURSELF NO ONE CAN HELP YOU EVEN GOD...

We have to be independent,
we have to help ourselves,
it feels good to rely on people but it is also dangerous...

We always say that i've done my best to forget but i can never get over it...

Remember these...

Rome is not build in a day...
it takes time...
a wound takes time to heal and scars will be left by the wound...
with todays technology... we can get rid of any scar that we have on our body with plastic surgery...
but
long time ago since the existence of 'men' we ourselves can get rid of the scar left by our wound in our heart... that is forget...
Not all and maybe not even one can totally be ignorant till they can 'forget everthing they had came upon... even people with amnesia at times still remember the things that had ever happened...

So to forget something is not as easy as it sound... but...
if you try and fail you are not a failure
however...
if you never even tried and give up you are a total failure...

So stand up and do your best... at least... give it a shot so that there'll be no regrets...

Let work hard together to have a better "tommorow"('',) ... All the best to all and just remember that...
To forget something is easy.... ''JUST DON'T THINK BOUT IT TOO MUCH...''
hahaha... it is easier said than done (for everything is the same)

The Amazing Creations

Can you see it?

Love it... Just love it... (",)

Miri Airport during Sunset... The sky is so nice and peaceful looking...

Sunset in Senadin area, took it while driving slowly... (So much like overseas scenery)

Evening time at Tanjung Lobang... Just love the sky and the cloud formation...

Nearly Sunset in Curtin Campus... Looks alot like sunrise...

View of Bekenu Beach (Bungai)...

These pictures had been taken quite awhile ago... and there were lots more... will upload it when i've rotated the pictures... I don't want people to their neck looking at the unrotated pictures...

The reasons for me to take these pictures and uploaded it were to share my interest in photography and my love for scenery...

Scenery's can tell a persons feeling and thoughts... to me, scenery's is a work of miracle by God. I hope one day, i'll be able to go around the world to capture all the amazing creation in this world. It feels like the scenery that i capture in pictures have thoughts and feelings of its own... Trying to tell us... whenever i see something i like i'll capture it and share to all...

Hopefully you all enjoyed it...

Answers...?!

What is the meaning of life?
The meaning of life is simple... as long as you're still breathing and not dead = life...

Life is a journey, which everyone will have to face since the day they come out from their mother's womb. Ever since we breath our first breath in this world, we are expose to the quest of life. All these years of living, breathing and growing up, how much have we learnt in life? Life is long YET it is short, we cannot predict what will happen the next minute. In short, when the time had arrive, we will not have the chance to say NO. So, are you appreciating every breath that you breath in, every seconds, minutes, hours and days that were given to you?

In life,
Though we are not the one who control what will happen next but don't be discourage due to that. We are given the chance to value and appreciate the things and times given to us each and every day, we take our life and chances for granted but it is never too late to start appreciating what we have around us. Even if we are living a long, luxury/good, and happy life, when we are faced with something unpleasant, our first reaction will normally be

"WHY DOES IT HAVE TO HAPPEN TO ME? WHY ME, WHY ME WHY ME?

Don't worry, every cloud has a silver lining. Though we know all these we still get down and unhappy. In life, there are sayings that makes people feel better, but it is just HARD to accept it. Truths are the hardest thing to accept in life (truths HURT). So... What should we do?

The answers can only be found in ourselves. Actually, most of the time we ourselves know the answer, the choice we wanted to make, the route we wanted to take...

but still...

We always seek for others "so called" advice. Its actually not really advice that we are seeking, it is APPROVAL...

Deep down in our heart we have the answers but dare not to confirm it unless someone and somehow, tell us about it. Whatever we say, words is like the sound of music (Hit the right key at the right time and it'll sound like music from heaven, hit the wrong key at the wrong time... 'then i'm sorry, it is bye bye').

Which is the right key to hit and most importantly... when?!

This is where communications, personalities, characteristics and thinking comes in... ('',)

I'm still learning and... ... ... ... ... ... learning...

Things may not always seem as it is, everyone is different, unique and special, it is a gift to be able to go on the quest of life. So, either you CONQUER it or just let it conquer you... IT IS YOUR CHOICE... ('',) Good Luck to all...

Questions

What is life?
Why do things that happen in life sometimes cannot be figured?
How come a person can feel happy and unhappy?
What is that feeling turning and churning in ones' stomach when they feel down?

In life we meet lots of people from different places to different ages and backgrounds,
What type of friends can be considered as good friends, best friends or friends like brothers and sisters? (In short, a person whom we can trust our life with, a person whom we are able to talk our problem to without having to be cautious of what we say!)

At times, it is not that we want to be cautious or doubtful of a person (friendship/relationship), but, no matter how we put away our doubts and (-)tive feelings of a situation or person, it is humans nature to be able/sensitive to sense danger just like all animal does.

In life when we come out to the society, we come across different types of people, the world out there is dangerous. The question is...
Who can we call a true friend?
When time passes, things change and what to say more a person.

Do we always ask ourselves, "Am i acting too much?"
"Do i have to do this?"
" Is it ok for me to say all this stuff?"
" How can a person be so mysterious?"
and lots more questions...

We do things and make decisions that we may regret at some point of our life, SO WHAT IS THE RIGHT CHOICE? There can never be a right answer, because, in this world there are no right or wrong... ... ... ... ... Am i right or ... ... ... am i wrong? ('',)

Well, what we know is that, as long as the choice that ones' made is "rightful" it will do no harm to one in future, however, we are not able to predict the future, as i mention before, time can change everything (even slight changes are changes) so the decision made now may be seen as the right one but in 10 or 20 years later it may be wrong (thats where regret comes in).

Do you know your purpose in life?
Have you figured it out?
Have you made an aim or goal in life?

All these are the questions i often ask myself, even if i've made a choice long time ago, in between the time that passes when i'm faced with a problem or certain 'downness' i'll begin to doubt my own choice, thinking and my heart.

Everyone need someone to listen to, the question is... WHO IS THE RIGHT PERSON? Have you found that right person whom you are able to share your happiness and sorrows with (without a thought of doubt he or she may betray you?) It is not easy to find that someone special (special does not mean a partner, it means a friend who we trust with our life).

At last, life is something i took for granted, without giving it much thought of my existance, however, at times it does come across my mind... So i'm still trying to figure it out...

P/S:-
Good luck and All the Best to whoever had read this post and pls feel free to give me your opinion on the things i've written. There may be errors however, i do hope the person who read this can understand what i'm trying to say... :)

Summer Course

I know i seldom i do really mean seldom update my blog... I can't say there's not much happenning in these time of not updating... hehehe.. anyway, lets get on with the updating and cut this intro craps.

Summer courses had begin for about 2 to 3 weeks liaw... Haiz.. headache headache. for somehow there are stress and fun at the same time. the purpose of me taking summer is not to graduate early but for some other reasons (which it is hard to say). Anyway, for the mean time, all i can say is that summer courses are hectic and tiring (i find myself sleeps more than i usually do).

With all the information bang into my head i think i get around 30 to 40% of all the things i learn... haiz... but most of all it is fun, enjoyable and challenging... (",)